Do you believe in this new study to HEAT UP Your Sex Life?

A revealing new study has pinpointed the true sources of sexual pleasure for women. Let us see the findings to help you reignite your sex life. Women haven't been waiting for a lab report to learn that

sexual sensation centered on the vagina is different from sensation centered on the clitoris--or on the breasts, for that matter. But apparently this is breaking news to sex researchers, who have only recently confirmed these facts using high-tech brain scans. And if this information comes as a surprise to your partner too, you'll be able to change your sex life in the most satisfying ways imaginable.

This new research comes from Rutgers University, where Barry R. Komisaruk, PhD, has been studying women's sexual response for 3 decades. He and his colleagues have now shown that not only does stimulation of the clitoris, vagina, cervix, and nipples activate distinct brain regions of the genital sensory zone of the cortex but also that titillating one area affects other sexual brain sectors as well. These findings are especially important to long-standing couples, who all too easily fall into sexual ruts, according to Nan Wise, a certified sex therapist and PhD candidate in Dr. Komisaruk's lab. The same old, same old sex routines don't work for women because female sexuality is nuanced and complex--more like a symphony than a cymbal clang. If your partner's approach to sex is one-note--exclusively focused on your vagina, for example--he's short-changing your pleasure potential.

Not every woman likes every type of touch, but there is likely a cumulative effect, says Wise. For most women, layering three or four types of stimulation could lead to a better sexual experience than enjoying one thing only. The result is that couples now have myriad reasons to try new positions, modes of touch, and means of sexual expression. Release your habits and inhibitions and let the fun begin. Here are some ideas from this research will help your sex life.

First method to heat up your sex life- Show and Tell

In order to defuse some of the tension that can creep into couple conversations about less-than-satisfying sex, consider drawing your partner a personalized pleasure map instead. Laura Berman, PhD, host of In the Bedroom with Dr. Laura Berman, provides her clients with a black-and-white outline of a figure's front and back on a sheet of paper. Circle the areas of the body where you'd like your partner to lavish attention. Also key: Assign each zone a number, which tells your partner what part of your body you want stimulated first, second, third, and so on.

Second method to heat up your sex life- Mix It Up

A study from Indiana University underscores the importance of going beyond the missionary position. Researchers surveyed almost 2,000 adults and asked them about their most recent sexual experience. They found that 81% of women who reported receiving oral sex reached orgasm, compared with 66% for those who stuck to intercourse. Just like Dr. Komisaruk and Wise at Rutgers, the Indiana researchers concluded that the more varied the stimulation--oral sex being a particularly good example--in a single sexual event, the more likely the women were to reach orgasm.

Third method to heat up your sex life- All In The Wrist 

It's all in the Wrist some women shy away from breast attention because their husbands don't know how to touch them in a way that feels good. Now that we see how tied in to the brain's sexual pleasure circuit the nipples are, it's time for men to brush up on their technique. "Men tend to touch their partners the way they want to be touched: fast and hard," says Dr. Berman.

You need to ask him to start slow, caressing the breast gently. The foreplay map will point him in the right direction, but you'll need to refine his efforts by explaining exactly what you want, according to Dr. Berman.

(Source-Rutgers University)